Are You Living A Nightmare?
Have you ever dreamed of that Asian fantasy woman in your life? Wondered what it would be like...what it could be like? What would it be like to really have an exotic Asian lady, long black hair, almond shaped eyes in your life, making your life complete in every way. Do NOT ever stop dreaming. Dreams DO come true. Look at the man that built the Empire State Building, the tallest building in the world at the time. What a dream he had. And how many people laughed and scoffed at him telling him, you can never do it. If he stopped dreaming and listened to them, he never would have succeeded so grandly. The same goes for you, for everyone. Your dream can come true but you must first have one. And second, pursue it. We at A Thai Mate will show you just how to do that. How to make YOUR dream come true. We have personally done it and are living it, that is why we know we can show you how to do the same thing. It is easy.
Are you one of the "Boomers"? Married and divorced, maybe twice and still alone? Totally not happy with your attempts and abilities to attract a mate that you can really like and get along with? Are you living the same nightmare that I was living? Do you come home to an empty, lonely house every night, no one there but the cat? And really not liking the bar scene where you spend a couple hundred dollars trying to get some woman drunk enough to go home with you and you still usually end up alone. That too was me. It was a real nightmare…. The nightmare of being lonely, alone, and not having someone to love and hold close in my life. The nightmare of waking up in the morning and holding a pillow instead of my dream.
I had a good job I loved in construction, owned my own company working as an electrician and making good money. I had a really nice house in an upscale area of St. Petersburg Florida that I rebuilt from wall to wall, a 3 car block garage full of tools and my shop with 2 apartments above it that paid over half my mortgage, a nice patio in back with barbecue and a hot tub and an 18 foot Bayliner. The American dream, I think I was living
it.
But I still came home to an empty and very lonely house. I hardly ever used the barbecue or my beautiful patio and the hot tub was usually empty. It was really not much fun being alone and having no one to share things and experiences with. No one to go any place with.
But I did have a dream. I had it for years. It was to find a nice looking Asian woman with long black hair and almond shaped eyes that I could enjoy living with for the rest of my life. I did not know where or how I would find her but was not discouraged. I kept the dream alive for years always believing that dreams do come true. Every reality in life was the dream to someone at one time. It is so very important to have a very real dream in your life, something special to work for. It can come true, I am living proof. Here is my story.
I was familiar with all the “find your bride here” websites and the arranged marriages and the dangers associated with them. I personally like Asian women, have been intrigued by the long black hair, honey colored skin and the almond shaped eyes since I was 15 years old.
I had a lot of Asian friends and business associates and found this made a good opportunity to meet Asian ladies too. Through this outlet I also ended up going to Viet Nam, China and Thailand 8 times in 12 years on business and pleasure, meeting countless new friends business associates and wife applicants and marrying 2 Thai ladies over the years so I know from where I speak when I give you this information.
I had the very unhappy experience of marrying a woman from Thailand whom I was introduced to, a school teacher in Thailand for 16 years that would make me a “good” wife that would be with me forever. Some Asian "friends" I knew in Tampa introduced me to her, we corresponded several months and I flew to Thailand to meet her. I eventually married her but it turned out the whole thing was a scam. She was only looking to marry me to get to America, get her green card and a good job and planned to leave me after that as she really had no interest in me.
My friend turned out to be a marriage broker, my wife had to pay her $10,000 in payments after she got a job here. After that she left me. This is known as marriage fraud and is a serious breach of our immigration laws with harsh penalty for those involved. Did I ever learn some valuable information from that relationship for the "next time".
Fortunately all Thai ladies are not all like that. There are some beautiful Thai ladies whose beauty start from their heart when they smile at you. Often they too have had an unhappy marriage experience happen to them, destroying the life they thought they had, shaking them to their very foundations. They just want a good man in their lives to take care of them.
They hear that western men take good care of their women and are very romantic and that is usually why they have an interest in Americans. The complaint I hear most often from Thai women about Thai men is that their men drank to much, smoked to much, gambled to much and did not show them much respect. A survey in the Bangkok Post showed that almost 75% of women originally married for love, 15% loneliness the rest other reasons, but their marriages broke up because of a lack of responsibility, alcoholism and gambling addictions.
The wives said they found dishonesty, physical abuse, drinking and gambling addiction unacceptable and they had discovered this trait in their spouse only after marriage. Another big one was that they were not very romantic, just took their wives for granted. And the biggest was that they were butterflies. A butterfly in Thai means the man that goes from woman to woman like the butterfly goes from flower to flower.
It is not uncommon for a Thai man to have what is called a mia noi or minor wife, a woman he helps takes care of but is not formally married to. Or he might have a mistress or girlfriends he visits and "helps".
The Thai wife cannot do much about it as divorce in Thailand is VERY different from America. If the Thai man wants a new wife, usually because the old one is getting to old for him he can leave his wife and not worry about child support payments or alimony to his wife. Divorce only means having to sign a paper at the local government office and you are divorced in Thailand. And some men think their wives are to old when they are in their early 30's and leave them for their girlfriend who is in her 20's!
This usually leaves the "old" wife almost destitute as the ex-husband almost never pays her any child or support payments, he just walks away.
And job opportunities for an untrained woman in Thailand are almost nil. The minumum wage here is about 200 baht per day...about $6.00 for a 12 hour day or serious work! It is almost impossible for a divorced Thai woman to find another Thai husband and most do not want to any how after their first traumatic experience. They have to depend on their families to help them and their children, there is no social welfare here. And often the families are not all that well off either, many are what we would call in a poor class, just getting by.
Their dream is for some wonderful American man to come rescue them from their situation and take care of them and maybe help their family a little for which they are forever grateful to you and never cease to show you in all that they do for you.
They too read romance novels see TV soaps and have dreams of romance and love in their minds. They are divorced and alone, not dead. They have feelings, romantic ones only they are dormant now. She is waiting for YOU to awaken them again and bring her to life. She would like to have a mate to share her life with just like you. To take care of. To love. To hold at night.
Yes, your future Thai Mate is here dreaming of her future too. Will you be a part of it? Do you have it in you to really make your life what you want it to be?
I am here to say that if you take good care of your Thai wife, she WILL take very good care of you. I still feel like I am living like a king, in a dream world where I do not wake up. A Thai ladies main job and expectation is to take care of and do for her husband. And when you earn their respect and they start to like you, there is nothing they will not do for your happiness. Another reason to choose our site to assist you in finding your mate, we personally know the pitfalls the dangers to look for and the pleasures. I have personally lived them and know what to watch out for in your search for your Thai Mate. This is our job. So do not be afraid to dream, My Thai wife and I are living ours and you can too. We only want to share our good fortune with other people we know are in the same situation we were once in, living a nightmare, being alone and lonely. That is why we started this website, we know what to do. My Thai wife and I found each other and can show you how we did it.
As you can see there are very real concerns you must have in your search, I can tell you first hand about them. I feel that is one of the things that makes our website special and apart from the rest. I have personally lived and experienced what I will tell you about. Ours is not a website of words but of real life experiences, some good and some bad but ALL educational and valuable for future reference.
I now LIVE in Thailand part of the year and in the U.S. when I have to take care of things there. I now have the best of both worlds. Yes, I sold almost everything that I owned, I no longer needed my big house that I lived in alone. I had two large yard sales, gave away tons of “stuff” and what I did not’t sell I just gave away. Here I am in my 60’s and moved part time to live in a foreign country where I could not speak the language and I could not be more happy.
My Thai wife is much more than I could ever dreamed of having. She is my dream come true. She takes care of me like no American woman even knows about. But my dream goes even further. I not only married the Thai lady of my dreams, but I moved here to live with her part of the year. I originally was going to bring her to America like most men do, but why? I always dreamed of living in an exotic foreign country part of the time, so why not? What a fantasy come true it is.
I think all of us men have at one time or another fantasized about leaving it all behind and going to some far away paradise where the weather is always perfect and the women always smiling at you and taking care of your every need. That is not only a dream for me any more but it is now my reality. My dream has come true, I am living it. It was easy, it was really all so simple. I just decided to DO it, not just talk about it. You can too.
I let my large house with it's large payments go and got a long term lease on a small apartment for when I am in America. I am still a resident of Florida, but I no longer needed my big house, a small apartment would do just fine. I saved thousands of dollars every year on house and insurance payments, got rid of all those "things" I really did not need and now I am free to be where I want when I want.
You do not have to leave America like I did to have your Thai Mate, the paperwork needed for Immigration is straight forward and easy to fill out to bring her to your country. We take care of that for you too.
Once I said and then knew in my mind I was going to do it, the rest just followed naturally. Everything I did was geared only to getting rid of almost everything I owned, all the countless “things” I had collected in a lifetime of collecting things. I started selling everything, my large gun collection, my boat, truck, clothing, tools, etc for whatever I could get for them. My friends and neighbors got some bargains galore.
Some thought I was really making a big mistake, “nuts” some envied me for living my dream but were happy for me. I had two yard sales and ads in the newspapers to get rid of it all. A lifetime of collecting what I thought were really valuable "things". Now I saw them only as anchors, holding me back. Keeping me from my real dream. Now I was only getting pennies on the dollar for them. Really all they were were things. You can always get more things wherever you are at.
When I could get rid of no more, I packed all I could in 3 large bags and put my cat Shadow in a cat carrier, I could not leave him behind, and left for the beautiful city of Bangkok, Thailand, adventure land for adults, then to Udonthani and finally to a little picturesque village in the country called Nong Wusor close to the Lao border.
There are water buffalo walking in the rice fields, some times causing a traffic jam as they wander on to the road, an occasional chicken darting across the road, and lots of motor bikes. Billions of motorbikes. It could not be further from the way of life I had know in Florida if I landed on another planet.
But I have found something I did not have in Florida, happiness. I am truly happy every morning when I wake up and at night when I go to sleep in the arms of my lovely Thai wife. And I do mean in her arms. Long black hair flowing on the pillow...just a dream last year but real now.
I used to hug a pillow dreaming it was my Thai wife. Now EVERY night I sleep on the pillow and hold her until I fall to sleep. I am no longer seeking or dreaming of what it could be like. The reality is much more rewarding and gratifying than my dreams ever dared to venture.
And remember, it is a dream come true for your Thai wife too, she too was dreaming of her American husband coming to rescue her from her empty and lonely life and take care of her and hold her closely in his arms at night. She too has feelings and desires, all unfulfilled in her life. Only a dream. She will never forget this about you, you are her knight in shining armor, you made her dreams come true. No more lonely and empty nights for her either. You are her savior. This is a fact of life here. She will fight tooth and nail to keep you and do what a wife must do for her husband to bring him happiness. She knows that a happy husband is more likely to take better care of her. You have filled her life her heart and her bed.
I have traveled to Thailand 8 times and as I spent more time here I was amazed at how many “farangs” there were here. Farang is the slang term for westerners and is not a bad word. It means most white people. There is a large ex-pat community in Thailand. I found a number of westerners living a middle class life here on their social security checks. By law here, you need to show an income of $1,200 per month to get a long term visa, one year at a time. And most of the men here in their 50’s to 70’s and up had young wives or girlfriends in their 20’s, 30’s and 40‘s!
And they ALL are so happy and ALL smile a lot. And I mean these men smiled a LOT. So did their girls. I did not see anyone showing any stress or pressure. Just a lot of happiness and smiles. They are now living the life they used to dream about. They left their nightmare behind and made their dream what they wanted it to be.
It is impossible to put on paper what it is like to live when you are here. I have tried to explain it to friends but they could not really comprehend it until they came here for their first time. Your first trip to Thailand will be truly astounding to you. You will enter your space ship and 24 hours later you will step out on another planet. It is so different here, the people, the customs, the food, the very way of life you will think you are on another planet.
So do not stop having a dream, that dream is necessary to build your reality. The dream did come true for me and thousands of other men who dared and so can you. When you let your dream come true, this is where you will spend your first few days and nights with the woman you choose to be with from our website. On another planet. Your feelings will be overwhelmed at first but it will be an experience you will never forget.
For those interested, I will tell how I met my wife and got her to like me, add a picture album of my trips and adventures here in Thailand and of my wife and myself and our life here. Something of interest you will not find on any other site. The story of how a man can make his dream come true with no great expense or effort. You just have to decide to do it, we will take care of the rest. We will find you the lady, make arrangements for your flight, book you into a hotel personally approved by us and arrange your meeting with the lady of your choice.
Then we will help you to arrange some tours you will rave about for years so you have some places to go with her. Thailand is a most beautiful country with a long colorful history worth seeing. You have world class shopping at third world prices, prices that are unbelievable by western standards.
Most have heard about The Bridge on The River Kwai. It is here, still in a jungle-city setting. You can still take a train across the River Kwai on the same bridge built during the Japanese occupation by Allied prisoners of war and Asian slaves. You can see the war graves where over 10,000 men were worked to death. And in the jungle the ruins of the Japanese Army is overgrown by the jungle.
Or take a long tailed boat trip up the River Kwai and later eat at one of the great floating restaurants that are on the river. So much to see and do. Coming to Thailand to meet your new wife and see some of her beautiful country will be one of the most exciting and adventurous things you will ever do with your life. Be safe, Enjoy.